What I learned from “The perks of being a wallflower”

Earlier in the week, while trying to explain the term “Wallflower” to Luke, I came across the movie “The Perks of being a Wallflower”.  I was ecstatic; finally a movie that could describe me and make sense of this dysfunctional brain-to-mouth filter! This morning Luke and I watched the movie and what I got out … Continue reading What I learned from “The perks of being a wallflower”

7 Deadly Sins of Relationships

Ever since Jacques and I met, we have placed a lot of emphasis on the importance of communication in relationships. Between us we have witnessed, and were somewhat intimately involved in, 13 marriages; that, I’m sure you will agree, is a huge learning field to get your information from with regard to making a relationship … Continue reading 7 Deadly Sins of Relationships

When closing doors and burning bridges are the only options

This Paulo Coelho quote really struck home with me today:   Each of us have a different stories, unfolding day by day, and no-one could ever really understand all the emotion and dynamics involved in your story, that much I  know.  We always hear that we should never burn bridges, but what happens when you … Continue reading When closing doors and burning bridges are the only options

Start writing your new chapter, it’s your time my friend

How easy it is to tell someone to let go of the past and move on!  The act itself is something completely different from those eight words, I know.  I had a phone call from an old friend today and we spoke about exactly that. Moving on, or rather moving forward, with your life entails … Continue reading Start writing your new chapter, it’s your time my friend